Those who experience real happiness from the inside-out do not limit themselves to a small life inside their box.
They explore the vastness of life in a big world. They make everything, large or small, an adventure. And they do whatever it takes to maintain their happiness from the inside out. How? Self-dependent people know it’s healthy to allow themselves to be supported by others when making major life changes. A good coach would be in order now. People who live life outside of the box accept coaching from others. They have stopped thinking they should be able to do this all by themselves. They aren’t too proud to ask for help. They know they don’t have to do it all by themselves.
Self-dependent people are able to accept coaching and support from others. And because they have become Good With Me they no longer require themselves to know everything about everything because they now approve of themselves just the way they are.
Individuals who enjoy self-dependent esteem do not isolate themselves from others when they aren’t on top of their game. They know that it doesn’t matter what someone else thinks about them. They realize that what they think about themselves is what really matters. Those who are self-dependent enjoy a sense of connectedness to the universe and everything in it. They enjoy connecting with others because they no longer need the approval of others.
Coaching and support from others keeps them connected and is viewed as a vital component in the process of being a Good With Me person. The ability to recognize the need for support and reaching out for it is a sign of strength! A Good With Me person asks for help when they need it.