The Struggle For Each Of Us To “Prove” Our Worth

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It might not make much sense, but some of the most successful people in the world have no self-esteem and are totally other-esteem dependent. Why? Because good enough is never quite good enough. Even the next achievement is never good enough — and the one after that isn’t enough either — nor is the next […]

There’s Something Good About Every Single One Of Us

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Can’t think of anything good about you? If not, then make something up and think about it over and over again throughout the day. Don’t mistake this for encouraging untrue and delusional thinking. There is something good about every single one of us. Sometimes we just have to find it—and beginning with something made up […]

Get Ready For Something To Go Wrong….

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Do you remember when the bumper sticker “Shit Happens” was popular? Do you remember how you reacted to that statement? Or how do you suppose you might have reacted to that statement? Would you be part of the majority who would say “OH NO! Now what do I do?” Would you immediately think you have […]

The Secrets Of A Self-Dependent Person

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Self-dependent people explore the vastness of life in a big world. They make everything, large or small, an adventure. And they do whatever it takes to maintain their happiness from the inside out. How? Self-dependent people know it’s healthy to allow themselves to be supported by others when making major life changes. A good coach would […]